For the past three days things between L and I have been pretty decent. He seems to be getting over the need to spend too much time with his new friends and to want to spend more time with me and the girls. For the first time in a while he spend more than just an hour or two with us. There still was tension from the past few weeks as we are trying to get used to each other again without letting past disagreements come between us.
I know it is tough for me to not look for all the small signs that the situation might get worse again and to just enjoy the day by itself for what it is. I am trying and I think we did pretty well yesterday.
The best thing though is that we are able to talk again. Small talk is still difficult for some reason but talk about important things like how much time he is spending with his friends, plan together what to do the next day etc. I missed these conversations that are more than 'Oh, it's hot today, isn't it?'
We are on the right path again and hopefully it'll stay this way for a while.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
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